Hi guys so I stumbled upon an exquisite post today and it caught my attention immediately. I mean how many times do we judge a book by its cover not even bothering to read the whole book
Credits to Kayumbabrian for this eye opener!

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When I was young, I judged situations by what I looked at and not what I saw.

Me and my friends laughed at the inebriate man that was always passed out flat on his face on the lawn of his backyard. We thought he was just a failure in life and was just trying to find courage to go on at the bottom of the bottle.

Across the street lived a preacher. His wife always waved good morning to the neighbors from a distance and returned expeditiously to the comfort of her home as if she was playing hide and seek with the sun.

I also recall my high school best friend who always sat quite in the corner of the class room with his face deeply drowned in the pages of the text book and fingers glued to the pen. Other kids at school thought he was too shy…

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Our time as Kids

playground0-1-1492001 A playground now just filled with our memories.

Let’s take a trip down memory lane for a few minutes. I mean how many of us actually have time to do that on a daily basis whilst dealing with our busy lives?

When you do get the time though, don’t you just miss when everything was much easier? When we were young we couldn’t wait to be adults and now that we are adults we wish to be kids again… *smh* The aspects of life

I remember being a kid, the only thing I ever worried about was whether my friends were going to come out to play or not. That’s it! Nothing more, nothing less. Fast forward to the present; here I am having to deal with every thing life throws at me. I don’t even think I’m barely coping

If one doesn’t have to deal with the stress of assignments, tests or exams then it is bills, bills, bills! Life doesn’t get easier from here on.

Is it a bad thing that I want to be a kid again? Even if it’s just for a couple of hours. I want to go back to the times when I played “Marabaraba” with my friends or “Mogusha” I’m telling you that those were the days. For those who don’t understand what I said, feel free to ask

A trip down memory lane is always good for healing, it’s like a Bookmark in our lives filled with excellent memories; there for us to revisit whenever we are having bad days in our lives


Goodbye Old Wounds

I’ve been reminiscing about writing this for a long time now ( Please forgive me for that) I thought I had it all figured out. Today all of a sudden when I was getting ready for bed, I become sad for a lot of reasons and that’s when I knew that I had to write something.

Since I found out the truth, I’m unable to let go. I don’t know how most people do it; smile through the pain, forgive the worst and move on. I can’t do that, I’m only human. I feel pain and anger… My hypothalamus functions in the worst way possible.

But how could she use me like that? She came in the form of a serpant, disguised under a beautiful mask. Her master had set out one mission for her; to destroy me and leave me for dead. And I have to congratulate her because it worked brilliantly! Even better than they had imagined.

I’m cold inside, I can hardly trust people and as for love; I’m divorcing her, its only my destiny. She hurts me every time. I can barely get up now, I’m wounded all over. I can’t help but stare at my bleeding heart, I wonder who’s going to be willing to take care of it now when it’s all damaged like that. I’m going to fulfill my purpose but doing that won’t be easy that’s why I need to go find myself and now I say goodbye to the old wounds, they aren’t a part of me anymore…

Relationship Problems 101


I would like for you at this very instance to raise your hand up high if you have never had your heart broken, cheated on or betrayed. The stage is yours, whether you are in the subway, in school or sipping a hot cup of coffee next to your boss and you’re on your last warning; Scream out loud and say “I made it!”

Now, how many of you were able to raise their hands up high and scream? Well let me calculate the statistics quickly… 0% – that’s how many people past their teenage years were able to scream out loud.

They all tell you that heart breaks are a part of life. However, do they realize the impact that these ‘simple’ heart breaks have on our lives? They expect us to be strong and quickly move on but that’s not how the human heart was made. It was made to feel emotions, in the end that’s what keeps alive in the end.

I refuse to simply ignore my feelings and hide the pain! I have to deal with this so that I can move on with my life with no regrets left behind. I’ll be blogging about Life Problems on a weekly basis so if you are part of the 100% out there who have dealt with pain then stay close to my blogs hence what is coming from now on is gonna be amazing. NO more will you have to lock yourself in the room crying the entire weekend just to try and forget. We are in this together!


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